The Story This Marriage Could Tell

According to the Vanier Institute of Family and Stats Canada the relationship landscape of country is shifting rapidly.

: 4 out of 10 first time marriages end in divorce.

: For the first time in Canadian history there are more unmarried people than legally married people age 15.

: Common-law families are the fasted growing type of family in Canada with 1 in 10 Canadians living in such relationships and 15 per cent of children living with common-law parents.

: The rate of marriages has been in steady decline since 1981 and the rate of co-habitation in Canada has tripled in the last 25 years.

 

Today the honest questions around marriage are “Why bother?” and “Is it really possible to be happily married to one person for my entire life?”

Starting on January 15 we will begin a short (4 week) teaching series on the topic of marriage. This series is not designed to delve into marriage issues and help couples work through specific problems, rather it’s goal is to give both married and unmarried people a vision of what marriage is according to the Bible. That will help married people correct mistaken views that might be harming their marriage, and it will help single people stop destructively over-desiring marriage or destructively dismissing marriage altogether. We need to be reminded of a brutally realistic yet glorious vision of what marriage is and can be.

The Bible’s teaching on marriage does not reflect the perspective of any particular culture or time. In the Bible we have teaching that has been tested by millions of people over centuries in multiple cultures. There is no other resource on marriage like it!

There are three ways that you can participate:

1. Content Connection: Engage in the teaching times each Sunday morning from January 15 – February .

2. Group Connection: Various small groups will be meeting each week to discuss the content, share stories and perspectives and study the Bible.

3. Couple Connection:  Each week will include some fun activities for couples to engage in with each other.

You and I do not need statistics to recognize the challenges of marriage. We have all experienced the pain of broken relationships, divorce and infidelity either in our own relationships or those we love. There may be no greater need in our culture than relationship guidance and healing.

Christmas Day Devotional!!

To assist in making Christmas Day meaningful for your family we have put together two simple devotionals. One is specifically designed for families with small children. We hope that this Sunday can be a significant opportunity to return to the heart of the Christmas Message!

Christmas Day Devotional

Family Christmas Devotional

Introducing Oak Park Young Adults

This Thursday evening in the Refuge (youth room), our young adults will hold their first meeting. They are kicking off their first meeting this week at 7pm with a Pot Luck, so if you would like to check out what is happening bring food or drinks to share. There will be a chance to hang out, but this groups main focus is growing in their faith, studying God’s word, and encouraging one another.

If you would like further information about the group call Nate Nickel. His phone number is 403-603-8745. He would love to get to know you and chat with you about the group.

Thank you from WestCoast Christian Church

A Church plant in Surrey, BC that began in 2006-7 lead by Kurt Kuykendall (Alberta Bible College Grad & Oak Park youth leader and Intern ’95-98) that Oak Park has supported with our prayers and finances since its inception.
We received this Thank You card recently from WestCoast Christian Church:
Dear Oak Park Congregation and Missions Team,
Thank you for your most recent generous gift and for your kind partnership in the Gospel with us. We also really appreciated you note of encouragement for us. Its been incredible to see how Oak Park has gotten behind WestCoast (Christian Church) over the last several years …  Your support wasinstrumental in terms of helping us reach a self-sustaining level of health. Thank you also for your celebration of our independence. We feel Gods people praying for us.
In Christs Love  (& on behalf of WestCoast Christian Church)
Kurt Kuykendall
Though our financial support of WestCoast Church has come to an end, please continue to pray for Kurt, his family (Tammy, Isaiah & Victoria) and WestCoast Christian Church. Follow them via their website:    http://www.westcoastchurch.info/

Heart For Home June 2011 Update

When I sit down to a blank page to type out how we are doing in Haiti, an enormous intimidation overcomes me.  There is a pressure to make words flow just right; to tell about the right thing and explain it so you understand and are not mislead.  I, by nature am a very private person; I write in my journal in my solitude and rarely feel the need to tell people what’s going on.  It is also hard to explain the complexities about life in this country, there is a cultural difference and no day is like the last.  Things like, the land deal, took months to finish because of the political game that played out behind the scenes.  It seems like everywhere we turn people are trying to trick us to make more money and the craving of a few caused Ricot having to fight with law suites in court. That being said, the greed does not speak for the majority of the people we have come to know. For example, some people chose to donate part of their private property to give us road access to the HFH campus. These are some things that are not easily explained or described.

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The best way to update you is to ask you to come see and write your own story of Heart for Home in Haiti; write your own experiences.  This is your invitation to come.  Come to see the shed that was built on the property to hold tools and equipment as more construction continues.  See the new road under construction that only a few weeks ago donkeys had refused to recognise as a trail (haha). It’s in the process of being finished by every pile of gravel that is placed.  See the bonds Ricot has build with people in the community; and the growth that the hearts in bible study have taken.  Come to our Friday night community outreach, which now takes place in four different communities around our area.  There is music, friendship, films and videos; or see the computer class held in our living room where a handful of people are leaning the basic skill of typing.

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Little by little things are growing and taking shape and we are excited for it. We are so happy you are a part of this journey and pray you continue to move forward with us as Heart for Home develops and matures in God’s hands. As we often quote the adage, “many hands make the load light” we are blessed to know that we are doing what we do not because we are stronger than most but because many friends have chosen to join us in this journey to carry the mandate that Jesus asked us to share in Matthew 28. So far we have had the honour to welcome teams from Canada and the US with a serving attitude willing to help make a difference and supporting us in evangelism, construction, fencing and or to simply encourage. Thank you for all you’ve done and we pray that God’s blessings continue to shine upon you.

 

Mandy Leon

 

Father’s Day Lunch

Please stay after the morning service on June 19th for a hot dog lunch.  This is a free Father’s Day event provided by Oak Park Men’s Ministry

Pandamania VBS

Summer is soon approaching and that mean its time for VBS. This year at PandaMania, kids will discover that God is wild about them- a fact that will change them forever!   Your children will learn how God: made them, listens to them, watches over them, loves them no matter what, and that he gives good gifts!

VBS will run from Monday, August 8th through to Friday, August 12th  9am to 12noon

Registration forms can be picked up in the church foyer. Registration deadline July 29th, 2011

**all preschoolers must be fully potty trained**



 

Pine Lake Men’s Retreat

“I have been for the last two years and have been surprised by how much I have enjoyed it.
This is a rare opportunity for us men to get away and just be us. Believe me it is worth it! The food is fabulous – the fellowship is amazing – the activities are hilarious – and…well…you…you gots to come!”
-Martin Hosier

Dates: June 3 – 5, 2011
Speaker: Allan Dunbar
Theme: Men in the Mirror:  Stages of Christian Manhood
Worship: Malcolm McMillan
Food: Sports Night Out with a Pie Festival
Cost:  $60 Pre-Reg     $80 @ Door    $ 35 Saturday only
For more info and registration see
Or Dave Rehn at wdrehn@hotmail.com

Paul & Mary Davis: God’s Care and Protection

Hi Everyone

Once again we are truly grateful for Gods care and protection.  When we last emailed you Friday afternoon, we were trying to organize for Paul to get an intravenous antibiotic. Shortly thereafter he spiked a significant fever so that put us into high gear. Friends rushed him to a mission hospital and they were able to get the drug he wanted running quite quickly. By the evening his fever was gone and he was already feeling a little better. We managed to get very little sleep, not knowing what symptom he may develop next but praying that the infectin would respond to the drug. The next morning he felt much better and already some of the swelling was gone. Although it was raining quite heavily when we left for the airport, the rain passed over and the small local plane flew us to Port au Prince on time and we were able to catch our flight to Miami and then on to Dallas where we spent the night.  All seemed to be going well – swelling down and fever down so I gave Paul his next shot and we had a good nights rest. We arrived home yesterday and went straight to emergency where we had the joy of waiting for 4 hours. (I sat beside someone from Calgary whose friend had an infection that did not respond to antibiotics and he is still in hospital months later).  After Paul’s assessment, he received another intravenous dose and a referral to an infectious disease specialist.  We saw the specialist this morning and he felt that Paul had responded so well to the drug that he should just continue to receive it IV for the rest of the week and nothing further needed to be done.  Needless to say we are very thankful and can truly say with the apostle Peter “cast all your cares on him for he careth for you” 1Pet5:7   Satan certainly seems to do his best to cause us problems.

Because Paul had to keep his feet up so much we spent a fairly quiet week in Port Salut but it did make for lots of time to chat with Ricot and Mandie about how things were going and to hash out a few ideas for the future. We did visit the property once and wouldn’t you know it but Paul had a thorn go right through his crock and into his foot!! So he went from hot soaks for one foot to hot soaks for 2 feet. However he did enjoy doing a few mechanical things – sorting out a problem that rats had caused with the generator, and checking out a problem with the van. I spent time sorting and organizing the supplies that were received from the seacan shipped to Haiti last year and only recently released from customs.

It was great to be observers and meet the various people Ricot is working with and the classes he holds with them – typing, Bible study, and a group planning community outreach. It’s a pretty steady stream of people coming and going. We were very pleased to have been able to take 2 more laptop computers so he could see more students at one time. Ricot was also in the process of preparing for a team of   people coming from the US who hopefully will be able to fence the property with barb wire.   The challenge of working in Haiti is that the access road to the property has yet to be finalized. Government does not set aside road allowances and road access has to be organized by the seller. Although this supposedly has been done, the seller did not pay the neighbour who sold him the land for the road. Please pray that this can be settled quickly. It looks very promising that another mission agency will drill a water well for him so that will be wonderful.

There still are significant amounts of snow at our place but its a lovely warm day today so we hope it will soon be all gone and we can enjoy Spring. We thank the Lord for all the opportunities he gave us to care for people in Haiti and in turn to receive his care for us. It really is something to be part of a Christian family that extends from here all the way to Haiti and around the world. Our God is truly an awesome God. Please continue to pray for the people of Haiti and the missionaries that work there full time.

Love
Paul and Mary

PS  We will get this out to you now and will add a few photos soon when we can sort out the program necessary with our new little camera.

Youth Group Re-Launched!

Be prepared for the Wackiest Game Night ever!  Friday, May 6th 2011 at 7pm-9pm

Spring Clean Up & Work Bee

Another long winter is now behind us (knock on wood) which means it’s the perfect time to freshen up our building for another great summer.  The project lists are being compiled, supplies picked up, and refreshments anticipated.  All we need now is you!

So come roll up your sleeves and join us on Saturday, May 28th as we welcome the fresh start that comes with the passing of winter!

And make sure you sign up at the info centre.  Thanks!

Paul & Mary Davis: April 28 Haiti Update

Hi Everyone,

We’ve been a little slow getting back to you but we arrived in Port Salut yesterday after a truly eventful trip making us very thankful for your prayers as God certainly took care of us. It started with Pastor Ewal’s truck breaking down so we had to rent a vehicle and driver.   The driver decided we should leave at 3am but changed his mind and woke us at 2am so he could leave earlier (we still left at 3)to avoid any protest demonstrations (the recount of the election of senators overturned 17 of the candidates). It was raining heavy but completely stopped after we got out of Jacmel which we were very grateful for. About an hour later we got a phone call from the person who was coming in to Port au Prince to meet us, to say that the road was blocked so they would not be coming. We were quite relieved to find our friend Dr. Rudolph just happened (God’s provision) to be in Port so he came and picked us up and then we headed over to the airport to get Ricot and Mandie who had just arrived from the US.  After some discussions we came up with the idea of calling MAF (Mission Aviation Flights). They just happened ( God’s care again) to have an immediate opening so within the hour we were all crammed into a little 6 seat Cessna 206 and enjoyed a lovely flight skipping over all the road problems. Friends (Doris and Franz) had a wonderful meal waiting when we arrived which we thoroughly enjoyed having been up so early and having had only a snack.

Our week in Jacmel was a typical week in Haiti, things did not go as we planned but overall we felt good about our time there and had some very memorable experiences. One was the wedding of a girl who attended the church. The wedding was held outdoors as the groom’s church is too damaged to go inside.  It was a very rocky location and the bride and bridesmaids had quite the challenge trying to negotiate the terrain in their high heels. Two large choirs participated which was very nice. Everyone was truly dressed in their finest and I mean ‘fancy’ which is so amazing when you know how basic the living conditions are.  Afterwards it was quite the scene with as many as possible crammed into the back of a half ton truck, which we followed in the Pastor’s jeep, and a police vehicle (the groom is a police officer).  We paraded through the dusty, dimly lit streets of Jacmel honking our horns as well as intermittingly setting off the siren. It was quite the party time! Pastor Ewal was so pleased as the bride is an orphan girl from his church and she was marrying a very nice Christian man who would be able to provide for the family.

Good Friday was a very special service as various individuals in the church took turns reading the Bible passages leading up to Jesus crucification.  There was lots of singing and a  message followed by the baptism of 6 new believers. One was the young orphan boy that Pastor Ewal took into his family last year and it was wonderful to see him so happy and keen to follow the Lord. We were a little taken back when one person in the audience protested the baptism of one of the believers but the pastor went to his office with her and the lady waiting to be baptised. The issue was resolved and the baptism went ahead.

Easter Sunday we enjoyed a big Haitian meal with all of Pastor Ewal’s family sitting down to the table, an unusual thing for them to do.  Children just eat their food as they pass through the house. We even had some cake and ice cream, bought at a little restaurant that has just opened up.  The icing on the cake was that we got phone calls from all our boys and even my mom and two sisters. We purchased a cell phone to have here and it really has been great.

Whenever we had a break we tried to see a few of the homes that have been built or repaired with your donations. I had the privilege of receiving all the hugs and kisses and I wish it could have been some of you. It really is a blessing to be able to share with others and see the happiness it brings into their lives.  One man was so upset because he didn’t have time to prepare for our visit. While we were chatting, he suddenly went over and chopped down a big banana tree which came down with quite the thud.  I wished we knew what he was going to do and could have taken a video clip. He gave us the whole stock just to show his thanks and the next day at church he arrived with a bunch of mangoes. (We are loving all these mangoes and even developing preferences for our favorites.)

The medical clinics were not as busy as they have been in the past.  Hypertension was the biggest problem that we continue to see a lot of. Being the ‘silent killer’, it is very difficult to convince people that they should stay on their meds.  You might find it interesting to hear the blood pressure readings from one days clinic held in a little community called Meyer -  200/100,  170/110, 240/120, 150/100, 180/100.  We give them all cards with their reading and their meds and a follow-up date and place but it’s still very hard to get them to follow through. Foods also tend to have a lot of salt which is a very difficult to change.

Paul has had a very challenging time dealing with a very bad infection in his foot so has had to really slow down.  He stubbed his toe on a rock last Tuesday and thought nothing of it.  However the next day it started to get very sore and by the afternoon he could tell he had an abscess. He did all the good things he should – hot soaks, antibiotic, elevate his foot and even drained the abscess but the infection continued to spread leading to a swollen red ankle and some redness of his foot. Last night he had to add another antibiotic onto the regime and he thinks it may now be under control but he will continue to be very careful.

We’re enjoying being in Port Salut and look forward to helping Ricot and Mandie in their plans for development here. We’ll fill you in more on our next email.

Lots of love,

Paul and Mary